My mother used to make the following saying like a warning for girls not to make those all-too-common 12 Unforgivable O names for girls mistakes. “You will not be able to get away with something like this again! If only YOU knew that it was a mistake!” Well, it’s true.
You might be able to avoid these 12 un-forgivable words as much as possible; but first you need to have a better understanding of the importance of being a good listener. I recommend that you use the techniques that I’ve given you to help you in this endeavor. We don’t have to go over all the details of how to improve your ability to listen to your spouse and partner better, only to get to the heart of what it is that you want out of your relationship.
You will not be able to have this kind of a powerful and meaningful discussion without being more prepared to listen. This is the heart of good listening. Listen for your emotions, hear your feelings and the things they want out of your connection. Take stock of your experience before you even try to make any critical decisions, and then use these tools that Ive shared to get you ready for a healthy discussion with your spouse.
Once you start the process, you will gain confidence. You will feel more comfortable talking about important issues with your spouse. You will have the opportunity to listen to yourself and see if you have missed some of the important aspects of why it can be challenging to be your spouse. I hope this blog has been interesting to you, you are now well on your way to building a healthy relationship because of your commitment to staying committed.
You will learn from a relationship coach the secret to having healthy relationships. I have helped couples with emotional issues as well as couples where they have had a couple of failed relationships. I have worked in my career as a marriage and family therapist and have recently published a book, How to Have a Beautiful Marriage, which is a best-selling book on improving marital happiness. You can get your copy and download it today.
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