It’s always difficult to make the decisions you want to make. I get that. You can’t have it all the time. And it can be tough. And it can be frustrating. But I think the best way to keep my mind open is to not take things personally. When you make decisions, you’re making the decisions for your own good. If you don’t want to make it your own, you have no other choice.
You have to be willing to take things personally. I mean, you have to. If you dont. Then youre not taking it personally. Thats the whole point of people. One of the reasons why people are so hard to like. Theyre not taking things personally. Their not afraid to be a bit of an ass about it. Its really sad when you think about it.
This is true, especially in our culture, which seems to be so stuck in the idea that people are just “crying wolf” because they feel hurt. We have become so used to this idea that if someone is feeling bad about something, its just because they’re a victim. That being said, people can have feelings and we should all be able to say something, even if its a bit harsh. The problem, of course, is that people do tend to be too emotional.
I’ve been told in the past that I’m too emotional, but I’ve never quite figured out what that might mean, so I guess I’ll just always say I am. Emotions can be a bit confusing in this day and age because often it is difficult to even describe them. Many people are quite literally afraid of being labeled as “emotional.
It’s a bit like saying I’m a big-time fighter. I have to say its not all that difficult to say, but it takes a bit of practice to be very clear about it. I’m very emotional, and being a fighter is very emotional, so I guess I should say I’m a strong fighter.
Sure, you can use the word “emotional” to describe many things, but that is not what this is all about. It is a way to describe the emotions you are feeling at the moment. Like the word “fear” is used to describe fear, “anger” is used to describe anger, “hurt” is used to describe hurt, and “jealous” is used to describe jealousy. These all describe things that we feel.
This is not the most difficult part, but the most important. You can’t be all that negative when you’re feeling a little bit positive about something that you’ve already done. If you feel an awful fear, it’s probably a bad way to feel. It’s not a bad thing to feel that way, especially if you’re feeling very positive. Because the fear you feel doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to do something that has nothing to do with it.
So if you feel a little bit negative about something, you dont feel that you have to do it. You can feel that you need to be doing something. So if you feel like you cant do something, that means that you dont feel like you want to do it. That means that you think you dont want to do it, and that’s not necessarily a bad thing, but it doesnt mean you have to do it. This can be extremely helpful to know.
I’ve made this point many times to people when I’ve asked them for examples of pushy person traits. Now it is important to note that this is not a bad thing. If you’re a pushy person then you probably have a reason for it. Maybe you feel like you need to be a pushy person, maybe you feel like you have to do something because you feel like you need to be a pushy person.
So why is this important? Well for one thing pushy people are usually loud, they usually do things out of the way, they usually get a lot of pushy feedback, they like to be the center of attention, and they are probably very competitive with themselves. For another thing pushy people tend to be very insecure.